As we know we have rules in life. Just like with your ex there are basic rules you should follow if you want to get your lover back. Matt Huston lists all the rules in his ex back systems. There are lots of rules to follow when your pursuing your ex lover. Some of the basic ones are no begging, pleading, and stalking. Matt Huston has seen lots of people make these mistakes before and it was not good. Another big rule that Matt Huston talks about is giving your ex space. giving them at least a month alone to think about everything.
Matt Huston knows that when he or she tells you they want space and your ex makes it clear they want to see other people its hard to not fight against what they want Matt Huston knows that you and many other people may try to get their ex back by almost any means necessary but you have to always follow the basic rules so you do not mess up your chances. Most people go about getting a lover back the wrong way. Matt Huston can bet you may feel like telling them how much you love them but that is not going to work. its just going to push them away. The 1 rule Matt Huston talks about is no contact and you have to limit the contact as much as possible.
Once you cut off contact with your ex it aids to that sense of mystery about you that could make them think about you more then if you were always talking to them after the break up. Matt Huston knows the best way to be on your exes mind is to cut all contact from them. Once you do this they will be shocked that your no longer talking to them because normally you always. Matt Huston wants to make it clear that this is the first step to get your ex back. Is to get out of your exes site and make them think about you.
Matt Huston knows that you will be having a very hard time not contacting your ex after the break up. Mostly because of all the emotional triggers you have such as thoughts about them and things you may own that reminds you of them. Try to take down all photos and put away anything that could remind you of your ex so there will be more of a chance you do not think about them the entire time. Basically anything that can remind you of your ex you should put away.
Another thing that me and Matt Huston would recommend is to stay away from drinking while your in the no contact period. If you get to drunk with friends you might decided to just contact your ex while you are drunk. If you drunk dial your ex then Matt Huston knows you could have destroyed all chances with your ex. So try to stay away from this. Now that i have talked about the basic rules and no contact try to follow them the best you can.